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Comments by Fr. Mark on Monday, January 29, 2007 at 12:52 IP Logged IP Logged

What would be the usual policy of a diocesan priest entering the order? Do your priests assist at any local parishes?


After a period of discernment with our vocation director, a diocesan priest would ask permission from his bishop to come to the Abbey. He would live in the monastery as a candidate or as a guest for several months. Then, after another period of discernment, he may ask to be accepted as a postulant and begin his formation in this way of life.
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Comments by Donald B Brady on Friday, January 26, 2007 at 13:00 IP Logged IP Logged

If thinking seriously of becoming a monk, what of the candidate who takes subscription medications? Are all medications allowed? How are they obtained within the monastic community?
How are they paid for?




Members of the community, including those in formation, receive whatever medications they require. These are paid for by the monastery. Candidates who are aspiring to enter this way of life need to begin with good health. Medications are a consideration in the process of discernment.
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Comments by Tom on Monday, January 22, 2007 at 20:09 IP Logged IP Logged

I'm wondering about exercise. Do you have any hiking trails on the property? Do you have exercise equipment, bicycles, x-country skis, etc.?



We have an excellent exercise room, or therapy room, conveniently accessible in the Abbey. There are four photographs of the exercise equipment on the Abbey News page for Jan. 23, 2007. Some of the monks use bicycles, but no one here is using cross country skis. The Abbey farm and woods are spread over 3,000 acres, providing lots of trails for long walks, and hiking in several rugged areas and deep valleys.
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Comments by joy on Friday, December 1, 2006 at 04:59 IP Logged IP Logged

Hello, my name is Joy. I would like to greet you and want to be friends with you. You would know Mallory and Morgan because they sent you a comment. I also go with them! The three of us go to a Catholic School! Please pray for me and I will pray for you also! I would like to take a tour of New Melleray Abbey because I was gone when my school went there! So I would like to visit you someday. Thank you. I hope you have a good Christmas!!!

Thank you for your Christmas wishes and your joyful greeting. Please do pray for vocations to our community. There are many things God wants to give us because we pray for them, so that we may share in bringing about what God wants for us. And we do pray for you.

It is really nice to visit a monastery like New Melleray, and even nicer to live here. May the Lord bless you with an opportunity to come here, and also bless you with many gifts to bring you closer and closer to his own heart, so full of love for you.
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Comments by Mallory on Monday, November 27, 2006 at 18:14 IP Logged IP Logged

Hi, my name is Mallory and I am 11 years old. I also went with Morgan to your place. I thought it was very interesting, but what I wouldn't like is not being able to go places like to ball games, or family games because I am in Softball, basketball, and bowling. I have alot of fun playing. Well my question is... does your Monestary get to hold weddings?? Thank you very much for spending your time to read my paraghraph.I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving, I also hope you have a Merry Christmas.

We don't have weddings at the monastery, but a priest from the community may celebrate a wedding at the beautiful little red brick parish church across the road from the Abbey when a relative or someone close to him requests it. It is the privilege of your age to play and have lots of fun. May you be filled with joy. At the monastery we don't play games to have fun, but we do enjoy life a lot when we fall in love with Christ and seek to please God with our whole heart and to spread that love around us. Please come again!
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Comments by morgan on Sunday, November 26, 2006 at 17:58 IP Logged IP Logged

Hi. My name is Morgan and I am an 11 year old. I go to a Catholic school and visited your Abbey last spring. Thank you very much for the tour. I got a lot of ideas about what I wanted to do in life and where I would go with it. Well my question to you is when or do you get to see your family or loved ones. I have always wanted to know that so I thought I would ask you. If you could please write back, that would be very nice of you. Thank you again for the tour last year and have a Happy Thanksgiving.


May the Lord bring to fulfillment in you all the good desires that fill your heart. Thank you for your question. Family and friends may come to visit several times a year, sometimes staying overnight in our Guest House. Monks may also go to visit their family members in time of special needs, such as a serious illness or death of a loved one. The most important things in life are love of God and of one another. This way of life helps us increase and deepen our love for family and friends, and for the whole world. Pray for such a great grace every day. The Lord will hear your prayer and make you very pleasing to him and to all those you love. May Advent be a time of special blessing for you.
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Comments by Raymond R. Fodrie on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 at 14:06 IP Logged IP Logged

Thank you again for your response. Could you explain the purpose behind being a vegetarian? I understand what it says in the Rule, but as you know the Rule is fine but it's not scripture and through scripture we are allowed to eat anything. Also, what sort of self-denial do you practise? I mean there's not anything different (i.e. strange) that goes on is there?
Thanks,
Ray


Some people are vegetarian because they believe it provides a better nutritional balance. Although that is not the reason for our practice of abstinence from meat, the oldest priest in the world today is a Trappist monk, Fr. Nicolas Kao Se Tseien, born Jan. 15, 1897. Last year he celebrated the 100th anniversay of his first communion! The average age of the eight monks who have died here since 2000 is 83, and our oldest monk is 99.

Some people are vegetarian because they object to the intensive farming practices that are becoming more common to produce meat and animal products at current and projected levels for developed nations. According to the United Nations Population Fund each U.S. citizen consumes an average of 260 lb. of meat per year, the world's highest rate. Others are vegetarian only because they are poor. They are not against eating meat, but regularly eat vegetarian food out of economic necessity. For them meat is a luxury. We can afford to eat meat, but our practice of abstinence does bring us into closer unity with the poor of the world.

The National Academy of Sciences reports that most of the world's population today lives on vegetarian or near-vegetarian diets for reasons that are economic, philosophical, religious, cultural, or ecological. Cistercians are not vegetarians by conviction but by vocation. On some occasions (e.g. a meal with our family in the guest house, or meals taken on a journey, or meals for those who are infirm) we enjoy having a hamburger or steak like anyone else. But in our vocation, following the Rule of St. Benedict, we choose to abstain from eating meat day to day. God has called us to a life of prayer and penance for our own good and for the good of all in the world who can be helped by our prayers and sacrifices. Christianity does not prohibit eating meat, but it does encourage prayer and penance by abstinence and fasting.

There are other ways people have practiced penance in the past: hair shirts, self-flagellation, spiked bracelets, belts and chains worn tightly around the waist or arms, infrequent baths, etc. We do not practice any of these. St. John Vianney once said, “My friend, the devil is not greatly afraid of the discipline and other instruments of penance. What defeats him is the curtailment of one’s food, drink and sleep. That is what the devil fears. Oh! How often have I experienced it! Whilst I was alone—and I was alone during eight or nine years, and therefore quite free to yield to my attraction—it happened at times that I refrained from food for days. On those occasions I obtained, both for myself and for others, whatever I asked [in prayer].”

Abstinence, fasting, rising at 3:15 AM or earlier to pray, poverty, chastity, and obedience, along with a generous endurance of the small and large hardships that come to us unbidden, and loving patience with one another's defects of body and character are forms of penance we embrace in our lives as monks today.
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Comments by Raymond R. Fodrie on Monday, November 20, 2006 at 17:13 IP Logged IP Logged

Thank you for your quick response from last week; I gather that the charism of the Cistercians and Benedictines are virtually the same. Let me ask you this: What about recreation? We all know today about the benefits of exercise for both mind and spirit. If it isn't allowed for in the daily schedule you might consider it for the physical and psychological health of the community.
Thank you,
Ray

In our Constitutions (#24) silence is placed among the principal monastic values of the Order to assure solitude for the monk in community in order to foster mindfulness of God: "According to the tradition of the Order silence is to be observed especially in the regular places such as the church, the cloisters, the refectory and the scriptorium. There is no recreation in communities of the Order." In this context recreation means forms of mental and physical refreshment for amusement that would interfere with the solitude and silence of the monastery. Physical exercise provides mental and physical refreshment that supports a life wholly orientated to prayer. Walking and jogging and the use of physical exercise machines are encouraged in our monasteries.
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Comments by Michael on Sunday, November 19, 2006 at 05:22 IP Logged IP Logged

I read in a book that Cistercian abbesses were giving retreats and making visitations to houses of monks. The same writer indicates that sisters vote equally with their male counterparts for abbot general, and theoretically a sister could be elected head of the Cistercian order. Could be a good thing, in my opinion. Comments?

Each year our communities make a retreat of at least six days. The retreat director may be a priest, religious, or lay person, male or female. Cistercian abbesses have given retreats in other Cistercian communities. Jesuits were the first religious order to include retreats in their rule of life. A little later St. Francis de Sales and St. Vincent de Paul encouraged retreats in their communities. In the 17th century retreat houses were instituted where those who wished to make a retreat might go for a few days. Most of our Cistercian communities provide hospitality for guests wishing to make a retreat. In the 19th century the practice of an annual retreat became widespread for clergy and religious, and also for many of the laity. The forty days Christ spent in the wilderness is a prototype for the practice of going on retreat.

A religious visitation is a periodical inspection of the temporal and spiritual conditions in a community by an abbot or abbess, normally from the founding community. The purpose of the regular visitation is to strengthen and supplement the pastoral action of the local abbot or abbess, to make corrections where necessary, and to motivate the community to lead the Cistercian life with renewed spiritual fervor. Each monastery is to be visited at least once every two years. In communities of monks the visitor may be accompanied by an abbess. The mutual support given by our monasteries to each other in the person of the abbots and abbesses encourages fidelity to a life wholly orientated to prayer.

The supreme authority of the Order is exercised by all the superiors meeting in their own General Chapter, monks for monks, and nuns for nuns. Accordingly, the abbots are competent to legislate for the monks, and the abbesses for the nuns. The simultaneous gathering of both General Chapters is called a Mixed General Meeting. In matters proper only to monks or only to nuns, just the abbots' or abbesses' votes are taken. In matters common to both, all vote together.

The Abbot General is elected by the General Chapters of both monks and nuns in separate sessions. Whoever obtains an absolute majority in both Chapters is considered to be elected. Election is for an unrestricted term. To be eligible, one must be or have been an abbot in the Order, at least 40 years of age. The Abbot General is by Church law the Supreme Moderator of a clerical institute of pontifical right.

The annual retreat, visitations, General Chapters, and the Abbot General all serve to protect us from the weaknesses of human nature, more inclined to tepidity than to fervor, to relaxation than to discipline, to self-will than to living under a rule and an abbot or abbess.
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Comments by R. Goodin on Saturday, November 18, 2006 at 18:26 IP Logged IP Logged

I was wondering if someone that was an extrovert would fit in, in a monastery. Are all monks introverts and such? OR are there a variety of personalities? Would it be difficult to bear-the silence and limited interaction-for a person like the extrovert?


In chapter two of his Rule for Monks, St. Benedict writes, "Let [the abbot] understand what a difficult and arduous task he has undertaken: ruling souls and adapting himself to a variety of characters." While introverts have a natural desire for silence and solitude in a life of prayer, extroverts have gifts that help them bear the responsibilities of abbot, novice director, procurator and other offices. Both types of personality have a place in contemplative monasteries. It is not necessary to be an extrovert to serve well in a position of leadership but it helps. It is not necessary to be an introvert to live in a monastery but it helps.

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