Comments by richard on Friday, May 4, 2007 at 08:47 |
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Good morning. I realize how busy you must all be, but if you could help answer a question I have. How would a happily married couple start to create in their lives a contemplative life style? The hunger to understand what Christ wants from us is there but we have ignored, or rather been blinded and distracted by just living our lives and raising our children. Whoa! What a question. Thank you for your time. We are glad you are in the world We are happy that God put us here, too! Prayer is awareness with love of God. And to pray well is to love God with one's whole heart, one's whole mind, and with all one's strength. It's the greatest commandment. A contemplative life style is a structured life to make prayer easier. Your desire, your hunger for what Christ wants, is already a good start.
Contemplative monasteries try to direct everything to make a life of prayer easier. Some of these practices are compatible with the duties of married life and will help you be more prayerful. Separation from the world (throw out the TV, or put it in a far less distracting place); vigils (rise earlier to make use of the time before distracting activities get started); silence (provide quiet times and places); balance work and leisure (not too much work, not too little leisure); pray the Liturgy of the Hours together (this is Christ's own prayer, and the prayer of the Church, so it is your prayer); daily Eucharist (with the Liturgy of the Hours this is the source and summit of prayer); lectio divina (divine reading, or to put it another way, "become a bible," memorizing the Word of God means becoming Christ, it is communion with the Word of God). If you live near a contemplative monastery becoming an associate, like our Associates of Iowa Cistercians, will be helpful. If you live too far away, then an on-line association like our Conversi will be helpful.
If this seems daunting, do what you can, not what you can't. |
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